A GLIMPSE OF BUDDHISM
AND THE 49TH DAY CEREMONY
Trần Chung Ngọc
What is Buddhism?
Buddhism
is simply the Teachings of the Buddha (The Enlightened One). The name Buddhism
comes from the word "Buddhi" which means "to wake up" and
thus Buddhism is the teaching or philosophy of awakening.
What did Buddha teach?
The
Buddha taught many things, contained in several hundred volumes which are
classified in three categories called "Three baskets" (Tipitaka):
As
for practice, this can be summarized in the following four verses of Paragraph
183 from the Dhammapada Sutra:
"Refrain from doing what is evil;
Do all what is good, wholesome;
Purify your mind;
That’s the teaching of all the Buddhas."
What do Buddhists believe?
Buddhists’
beliefs are through experience, that is knowledge by
acquaintance. In the Kalama Sutra, also known as the "Fundamentals
For Belief" in Buddhism, the Buddha advised
Buddhists not to take anything for granted:
When you hear anything, you have to examine it, think about it, and
experience it. When you know for yourselves that certain things are wholesome
and good, moral, beneficial to yourself and to others, only after that you
should believe in them, accept them, and practice them.
In
another occasion, the Buddha went even further. He told the Bhikkhus (Buddhist
Monks) that a disciple should examine even the Buddha himself, so that the
disciple might be fully convinced of the true value of the teacher whom he
followed.
When Buddhists worship the Buddha, is it a form of idolatry?
No!
The dictionary defines an idol as "an image or statue worshipped as a
god". Buddhists do not believe in a god, or that the Buddha was a god, so
the word "worship" is not quite appropriate from the Buddhist
point of view. "Paying homage" should be the correct term.
Furthermore, Buddha affirmed that the "Buddha Nature" is inherent in
all sentient beings. That means, anybody can become a
Buddha, the "Awakened One" or the "Enlightened One". A
statue of the Buddha with its hands rested gently in its laps and its
compassionate smile reminds us to strive to develop peace and love within
ourselves. The perfume incense reminds us of the pervading influence of virtue;
the candle reminds us of the light of knowledge; and the flowers which soon
fade and die, reminds us of impermanence, one of the basic teachings of
the Buddha. When we bow or prostrate before the image or statue of the Buddha,
we express our gratitude to the Buddha for what his teachings have given us, we
bow to our own "Buddha Nature", our own potential to become a Buddha.
If I want to learn more about Buddhism, which books do you suggest?
There
are many good books about Buddhism. However, for a basic understanding of
Buddhism, I would like to recommend two excellent books to begin with: "Old
Path, White Cloud" by the Ven. Thich Nhat Hanh, and "The Three
Jewels" by the Ven. Sangarakshita. These books are available at any
good book store such as Barnes & Noble or Borders.
What about the "49th-day-after-death" ceremony?
Buddhists
believe in the theory of many lives, or rebirth, or reincarnation, now proved
by scientific evidence and many authentic cases around the world. The teaching
of "Karmic Bardo", an intermediate state of 49 days’ duration between
death and rebirth, is peculiar to "Esoteric Buddhism" or
"Tibetan Buddhism". This teaching is described in detail in Sogyal
Rinpoche’s "The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying" or in the
classic book of W.Y.Evans-Wentz "The Tibetan Book of the Dead".
Very
briefly, according to this teaching, at death, our "karmic energy" or
"consciousness-spirit", that is the sum of all our actions generated
from our body, speech, and mind, from this life and from previous lives, in
form of energy, leaves the body, usually within three days after death, and
travels through space in a state of "Karmic Bardo" or "Bardo of
Becoming". The whole "Karmic Bardo" has an average duration of
49 days, and a minimum length of one week. Most ordinary beings do not stay in
this bardo longer than four weeks. As this Karmic Energy is no longer limited
and obstructed by the physical body of this world, the
"possibilities" are infinite for "becoming" reborn in
different realms. If one is to be reborn in the realm of human beings, the
"consciousness-spirit" will be attracted to and picked up by an
appropriate fertilized egg, or if one has good enough karma, one is liberated
from the cycles of birth-and-death, and goes directly to the Western Paradise
of Utmost Joy, a Realm called Pure Land of Eternal Bliss.
What
we can do to help the dead person is called "transference of
consciousness". For 49 days after the person’s death, every day or at
least every week, we should perform some rituals in which we simply direct our
good thoughts toward him/her, and recite some Sutra and Dharani such as the
Heart Sutra, the Dharani of the Most Compassionate One, the
Rebirth-in-Pure-Land Dharani etc.. which is believed
to have the power to purify each of the negative emotions that are the cause of
rebirth, and uproot all karmic hindrances so the dead person’s
consciousness-spirit can find its way to the realm of
The seventh week is considered a critical juncture, as 49 days is taught to be generally the longest stay in the bardo. Usually, immediate relatives and close friends are invited to attend this grand ceremony to pray together and to dedicate all the merit and well-being that spring from any such acts of kindness and generosity to the dead person, and in fact to all those who have died, so that everyone who has died may find his/her way to the realm of Eternal Bliss.